5 Realities the Gurus Won’t Tell You About Building a Successful Blog

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I sat silent on the idea of Blogging Your Passion for over a year before I ever moved forward with it. After all, do we really need another “make money online” blog?

Although I wanted to share with others how I was earning money blogging, I hesitated.

I didn’t want to fall into the make money guru category, where others often promise:

  • How to make $3, 564 in the next 24 hours with one simple email
  • Get a Lamborghini like me so you can lean on it and take a cool picture
  • Buy your own yacht, so others will think you are really successful (even though you’re way over your head in debt)
  • Make $4000 a month selling ebooks by buying my ebook “How to make $4000 a month selling ebooks”

What finally propelled me to get in the game was the great void of practical reasoning. I wanted to be a practical, realistic voice in a world of glamour and false fronts.

The truth is I haven’t had a car payment in 5 years and intentionally choose to drive an old 1999 Honda Odyssey and 2000 Toyota Camry that I paid cash for years ago. A principle I choose to live by is to accumulate experiences and not possessions.

I want to share with 5 things you won’t hear gurus tell you about making money online (or blogging).

1. It will take longer than you ever expected to be successful

If you are not passionate about your message, don’t start a blog. You will quit before success shows up. As we have said from the very first blog post, this journey is “brick by brick.” Overnight success is not possible.

I often receive emails from people in desperate situations. They are unemployed and looking to make some quick money blogging. What advice do we give them? Don’t start a blog. Go get a job and provide for your family.

Every full-time blogger started blogging part-time. I am sure there might be exceptions, but those would be extremely rare.

2. There isn’t just one proven way to be successful

If there is one thing I have learned over the past 4 years, it is this: you can earn money online in many different ways. If any guru tries to convince you that their way is the only way to be successful, run. They want your wallet and your worship, not your success and your friendship.

3. You cannot do it all by yourself

“Just follow these proven steps, work in your pjs, and be your own boss.” The gurus want you to think that success lies in just you. The truth is you need help from others if you are going to be successful. You need to learn from the experience of others.

You need to surround yourself with passionate people who are heading in the same direction. The “American way” says to go out there, make a name for yourself, and overcome the odds on your own.

Blogging didn’t start to really work for me until I opened myself up to relationships with others. A course alone won’t do. You need people to walk the journey out with you.

4. Education is overrated and action is undervalued

Be very leery of gurus who are constantly pushing things like:

  • Learn this new Google loophole
  • Buy this new report on how to make $1,000 with Instagram
  • Copy my exact system and earn six figures a month in 90 days

I know it might sound funny to hear that education can be overrated from a guy who sells blogging courses, but hear me out. Some of you are “lifetime learners” with no action to show for it.

You are convinced that what you need is:

  • New information that finally makes you successful
  • New tool that makes everything easier
  • New system that produces money while you sleep

I love education more than anyone, but education without action is futile. I see it first hand all of the time. People take courses, but never take action. Before you decide to buy a course, you need to decide up front:

  • That you will finish the course no matter what
  • How you plan to take action on what you are about to learn
  • That you will take action no matter how difficult it gets

5. Gurus don’t have it all figured out either

Don’t follow mentors who seem to have it all figured out. Don’t follow mentors, who aren’t willing to say:

  • That’s a good question, I really don’t have experience in that area
  • I am still growing and an area I’m learning right now is how to ______.
  • Can someone tell me how to ____________?
  • I’ve dropped the ball on ________, but here is how I plan to fix that.

I’d rather follow a mentor who shared their struggles and challenges, then one who appears to have it all together.

Which of the above realities have you struggled with most?